Positively Optimistic Day #97- Where Did You Go?

 “When you lose touch with yourself, you lose yourself in the world.” Eckhart Tolle

First of all I wanted to apologize to you all. This is the first day in which I’ve forgotten to post my blog. I had wrote most of it yesterday but had forgot to post it so technically I’m still keeping up with writing everyday it just wasn’t posted on time. I’m human though and I knew it was bound to happen at least once during this year haha.

I’m going to be better about keeping up with it though. Which oddly enough runs into the topic that I wrote about. So here it goes.

I think sometimes we get so wrapped up in things that we forget about ourselves in the process. For me a big struggle with this in the past has been getting in a romantic relationship and dropping everything for that relationship. As you know already that was the worst idea on the planet. We are human beings and our life is supposed to be about balancing all aspects of our lives.

I’m gradually learning now with my boyfriend that I still need to work on my balance. I would love to spend all of my time with him, but I also have to remember I have other parts of my life I care about too. In fact, that’ll probably make them want you even more. Why? Because they were drawn to those things about you before you even became official. They were drawn to the things that made you, you. Which are your passions, your interests, your personality. So you are doing each other a favor when you work on other areas of your life.

The point I’m trying to make with all of this is don’t give up anything in your life that makes you happy for any person or anything. Besides people you can also get to wrapped up into things like your job. Where it just takes up all your time and you ignore your hobbies and your relationships that bring you joy. Giving up anything in your life that makes you happy for one area is just not good for you. That’s why I wanted to talk about this topic today. Because we don’t tend to think about this but it’s so important.

I challenge you all to apply balance to your life like how I’ve talked about here and my other posts related to balance. It’s a very important thing to have. It not only helps you but everyone around you too. Because it’ll make you happier in the long run and your happiness will rub off to other people too.

Well that’s all I got for yesterday (haha sorry again everyone),

Amber ❤️❤️❤️

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